When I first arrived in my village in the Dominican Republic, I began to have a problem with my morning jogging routine. I used to jog every day when I was at home in the United States, so when I arrived in my village in the Dominican Republic, I set myself a goal to continue jogging two miles every morning.
I really liked the peaceful feeling of jogging alone as the sun came up. But this did not last for long. The people in my village simply couldn't understand why someone would want to run alone. Soon people began to appear at their doorways offering me a cup of coffee; others would invite me to stop in for a visit. Sometimes this would happen four or five times as I tried to continue jogging. They even began sending their children to run behind me so I wouldn't be lonely. They were unable to understand the American custom of exercising alone.
faced with a dilemma. I really enjoyed my early morning runs. However, I soon
realized that it's considered impolite in Dominican villages not to accept a cup
of coffee, or stop and chat, when you pass people who are sitting on their front
steps. I didn't want to give up jogging. But, at the same time, I wanted to show
respect for the customs of the Dominican Republic and not be viewed as odd or
What's the dilemma?
Account of a Peace Corps Volunteer who was serving in the Dominican Republic