1.6.4 - Intensity Factors
As you can see, we rarely use just one style but a combination of them. Therefore, not only do you want to be careful about labeling someone’s style, but also, far more importantly, you want to understand that your reactions can be because of style and not content.
There are just a few more items you may want to find out about before you go overseas, because attention to them will pay off in improved communication if you:
Honorifics: What titles are used to address people? When are first names appropriate (if ever)? What difference does status make in using titles? In places like Germany and Japan, there are strong rules about how to address people. In places like the Netherlands and Australia, the rules will be more relaxed.
Vocabulary: What jargon is shared by the other person (if any)? When
are you using slang or culture-specific metaphors (such as football parallels
or references to television shows)? What words and ideas are specific to your
particular peer group (e.g.: Gnarly, Man, Dude, Phat, That’s cool. etc.)? Often
everyday slang is not taught in language classes, so it is initially hard to
understand, but very useful to learn as quickly as you can. This includes a
usage of English which is different from US-American. For example, saying you are "stuffed" after a meal to signify
you are full will be understood in Australia as indicating you have just recently
had sex! And having someone in Britain
suggest that they would like to come by sometime and "knock you up" only means
they would like to drop by and visit!
Greeting Rituals: How long is an appropriate greeting? Are compliments fitting? Are different status people greeted differently? What physical behavior (e.g., handshaking—how often, other touching, if any) is expected? In Japan, bowing is a greeting ritual and it is good to try bowing, even if it is almost impossible for an outsider to learn all the nuances of this practice. In France, cheek-kissing is widely practiced, and each region has slightly different etiquette regarding number and styles of such greetings. In India, namaste requires holding the palms of your hands together (prayer position), nod or bow slightly, and say "amaste." Learning and using the proper form of greeting goes a long way to make a positive first impression on host nationals.
Time Language: When is "late"? Are there cultural differences in what might be an appropriate reason to be late? If, in Latin America, you are kept waiting beyond your "late" time, what will your reaction be? When can a party or dinner scheduled for 8:00 pm reasonably (by local standards) be expected to begin?
Dress Language: An almost universal dress code has evolved among teenagers but, interestingly, there are still differences in what is considered appropriate and what is not. US-American males wandering around Kobe, Japan, in shorts and t-shirts with a can of beer in the middle of the afternoon attracted very negative comments (which they could not understand). US-American woman often get unwelcome attention because of their abbreviated and casual dress, when a more conservative attire may ward this off. Most returning students, especially women, report that their usual informal dress lacked the style that was common in Europe. There will be conventional clothing rules and there will be people who deviate from them in every culture, but it is best to attend to what seems most accepted and age-appropriate, if for no other reason than to blend into the environment.
Differences in appearance, personal space, and communication styles are just a few of the many things that may make your experience abroad more intense. Now that you are aware of some of the verbal and body language issues that are likely to be part of your stay, it might be helpful to look at a larger picture and consider what R. Michael Paige calls "Intensity Factors." This is a list of contrasting cultural circumstances that have been proven to have strong psychological impacts upon individuals participating in cross-cultural educational experiences. He called them "intensity factors" because they can heighten the psychological intensity of stress in the adjustment process. You should give some consideration to these factors because each one can contribute to the stress of going and being abroad.
Click on each factor for a description*
* Adapted from Paige, R. Michael. “On the Nature of Intercultural Experience and Intercultural Education, in Education for the Intercultural Experience (Michael Paige, Ed). Yarmouth, ME: Intercultural Press. Inc., 1993.
Intensity Factors Exercise
The following Intensity Factors exercise will give you a chance to think about the degree to which your chosen country or culture may contribute to your adjustment stress and what role your background might play in adjustment.
Note: The Intensity Factors Index is a tool for self-assessment in evaluating the psychological intensity of intercultural environments one might encounter while overseas. It can also be used in designing intercultural training programs. This version was adapted by Bruce La Brack from Paige, R. M. (1993), "On the nature of intercultural experiences and intercultural education", in R. M. Paige (Ed.), Education for the intercultural experience (pp. 1-19). Yarmouth, Maine:Intercultural Press. R. Michael Paige, 2001.
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